EMBRACING COTIDIANITY
We seem to be constantly seeking the perfect angle, almost as if perfection is the ultimate goal. It’s entirely understandable—this isn’t meant to justify myself but how can we avoid it when we are exposed to so many different stimuli on social media? These platforms make us believe that living a life full of privilege and comfort is universal and that achieving our dreams is as simple as going viral somehow. We are inundated with idealized versions of success and happiness, leading us to feel that seeking perfection is a natural purpose.
This effort of perfection has become something of a virus in this generation. I could offer an extensive testimony on this subject, largely because I grapple with it at nearly every turn in my life. Every comment I make, every day I live, every picture I post—it all seems like it must be packed with potential and meaning, or else, as my mind insists, I won’t be likable or accepted. This pressure to meet some self-imposed high standard of excellence can be overwhelming and exhausting.
Over the past few months, I’ve been working on myself and thoughts. Shifting my focus towards being more present, easygoing, and more proud with the reality I’m currently living. I now understand that my path is uniquely my own and doesn’t have to be similar to anyone else’s journey. This realization has been liberating, allowing me to appreciate and enjoy my own progress without being overshadowed by comparisons to others. By embracing this perspective, I’ve started to find greater happiness in the here and now, rather than constantly seeking for an ideal perfection.
As I follow this journey of self-discovery and acceptance, I’ve started to realize the value in ordinary moments, in routine and everyday life—the simple, everyday experiences that often go unnoticed. The ride to work, the weekly grocery shopping, which I don’t actually enjoy much. The coffee I make morning, and the second coffee I buy after two hours working. Rather than seeking perfection in every aspect of life, I’m learning to appreciate the beauty in making mistakes and the small joys that come from just living life, rather than operating on autopilot.
I’ve noticed that I am always in a rush, without actually needing to be. So I started being more present and running less during the day. Not trying to do everything, but doing what I enjoy the most.
To embrace this change in perspective, I’ve been documenting moments through photography. Whether it’s my regular dinner, the sunlight through the window, or long conversations shared with friends during a meet-up, I’ve found that capturing everyday moments helps me stay grounded in the present. These photos serve as a reminder that life’s richness is often found in the most ordinary times.
This practice has become a form of mindfulness, showing me the significance of accepting the routine and the ordinary. By focusing on these moments, I’m slowly letting go of the need for everything to be perfect. Instead, I’m embracing life as it is, with all its flaws and beauty.
Happiness doesn’t come from achieving an idealized version of life but from finding meaning in what we have. I will continue capturing moments, not because they are perfect, but because they are real.
